The Power of Vulnerability

Vul­ner­a­bil­ity is one of those dreaded words. Some­times we’d rather die than allow our­selves to be vul­ner­a­ble in our rela­tion­ships. No won­der! Look at the def­i­n­i­tion of vulnerable:

“|ˈvəln(ə)rəbəl|
adjec­tive
Sus­cep­ti­ble to phys­i­cal or emo­tional attack or harm : we were in a vul­ner­a­ble posi­tion | small fish are vul­ner­a­ble to predators.”

Who in their right mind would want to con­sciously expose them­selves to an “attack”?!

Well, con­sider that there is always another side to the story, a dif­fer­ent angle, the other side of the coin. Bad can­not exist with­out good. There is no God with­out the Devil, no left with­out right, no up with­out down, and no Yin with­out Yang. So, what is good about being vulnerable?

The con­cept of being vul­ner­a­ble is sim­ple but it is often hard to let our­selves expe­ri­ence it. What is nec­es­sary is courage. The Rela­tion­ship Saver can help.

In The fol­low­ing video, The Power of Vul­ner­a­bil­ity, Mrs Brene Brown tells us that by allow­ing our­selves to be vul­ner­a­ble in our rela­tion­ships we can get no less than our very life out of it :

http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html

What are your strate­gies for deal­ing with vul­ner­a­bil­i­ties? Post your answer in the “Leave a Reply” space below.

Thank you.

Radomir

http://www.RelationshipSaver.org/

http://www.GamelessRelationship.com/

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Comments (3)

Odelia Cologie

April 26th, 2011 at 12:08 AM    


Hello! thanks for the good writ­ing style. Keep it up!

Belinda Kennard

April 27th, 2011 at 1:57 AM    


We absolutely love your blog and find the major­ity of your post’s to be just what I’m look­ing for. Does one offer guest writ­ers to write con­tent for you? I wouldn’t mind com­pos­ing a post or elab­o­rat­ing on most of the sub­jects you write about here. Again, awe­some web log!

wm

September 2nd, 2014 at 9:47 PM    


Being vul­ner­a­ble is def­i­nitely not a pop­u­lar thing to be, but some­times vul­ner­a­bil­ity can open your­self up to amaz­ing things. You can actu­ally learn things about your­self you never knew existed, and you can actu­ally learn about the oth­ers around you who wit­ness your vul­ner­a­bil­ity. Some­times you can actu­ally find strength inside that weakness.

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